Ever feel like your life has been tossed into a blender and set on high, and now you’re left wondering what happened to the carefully curated existence you once had? Yeah, me too. It’s like one minute you’re on solid ground, and the next, the floor beneath you has crumbled, leaving you standing in the middle of nowhere, staring at the mess and wondering, “What now?”

I’ve been there—more than once, actually. I remember feeling like my life was one giant puzzle that I didn’t have the energy to solve. So, what did I do? I tried to fake it. Filled my calendar with things, people, and distractions, hoping that if I stayed busy enough, I wouldn’t have to feel the ache of what was really going on. I’d smile through the pain, act like everything was under control, but inside, I was spinning.

You know that feeling, don’t you? When you’re going through the motions, trying to hold it all together, but deep down, there’s that gnawing emptiness. We keep ourselves busy—telling ourselves we’re “moving forward”—but in reality, we’re just avoiding or what I like to call “self-abandoning”. It’s like rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic. Sure, it keeps you occupied, but it doesn’t change the fact that the ship is sinking.

The truth is, it’s hard to admit when we’re lost. It’s easier to pretend, to fill the gaps with distractions, or convince ourselves that we’re fine when we’re clearly not. We dive into new projects or scroll through dating apps when we’re not remotely ready, hoping that somewhere in the chaos, we’ll stumble upon the version of ourselves we’ve lost along the way. Spoiler alert: that never works.

But here’s the thing—those empty moments, the ones we avoid with all our might? They’re where the real magic happens. I know, magic feels like a stretch when everything feels like it’s falling apart but hear me out. When we stop trying to fix the chaos and actually sit with it, we give ourselves the space to become someone new, someone stronger, more aligned with the life we really want. And that’s where the transformation begins.

I know it’s not glamorous. In fact, it’s messy and uncomfortable as hell. But when I finally got out of my own way and started investing in myself, everything changed. The void? It stopped feeling like something to escape from and became a blank canvas for me to create the life I really wanted. And let me tell you, once I figured that out, it felt like the universe handed me the paintbrush and said, “Your move.”

So, if you’re staring down that empty space right now, unsure of what to do next, know this: the answers you’re searching for aren’t out there in the distractions, the busyness, or the next new thing. They’re within you. You’ve had them all along.

It’s time to stop running, stop pretending, and start building. And if you’re ready for that, I’m here. Let’s fill that void with something real—something that brings you back to who you are meant to be.

Love and Light,

Michèle

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When I think about celebrating small wins, it reminds me of a story from a client who we’ll call Mary. Mary was navigating her divorce with the weight of the world on her shoulders, feeling overwhelmed by the unknown. She wasn’t sure where to start, and every day felt like one more step on a never-ending uphill climb. Like many, she was stuck in the idea that her life wouldn’t be okay until all the pieces fell perfectly into place.

But here’s the thing: waiting for that perfect “big win” before allowing yourself to feel proud or happy is a trap. You’re not just surviving until that day arrives. You’re growing. Expanding. Becoming someone stronger, someone wiser. And that deserves recognition every single step of the way.

One afternoon, Mary called me after attending her first mediation session. “It wasn’t much,” she sighed, “but I didn’t break down and cry. I managed to stay calm and step into my power, even when he tried to push my buttons.”

“Wait, hold on,” I interrupted. “That’s huge. You stayed calm. You stepped into your power. You didn’t cry. That’s NOT nothing, Mary. That’s a win.”

At first, she wasn’t sure she could call it a win. Like many of us, she was conditioned to think a victory had to look like a finalized divorce settlement, a signed decree, or a court battle won. But in reality, those “big wins” are built on a series of small, sometimes almost imperceptible steps forward.

The process of divorce—whether you’re just considering it, in the thick of it, or finding your footing post-divorce—isn’t one big moment of transformation. It’s a journey. And along that journey, it’s the small wins that keep you moving, that remind you of your strength, that help you feel like you’ve got this.

Why We Need to Celebrate the Small Stuff

Divorce is emotionally draining, to say the least. Whether it’s the late-night tears, the overwhelming paperwork, or the moments of doubt that creep in when you least expect them, the emotional toll is heavy. But when you shift your focus to celebrating small wins, you start to see the light breaking through the clouds.

Small wins are the proof that you’re evolving, that you’re making progress, even when it feels like the world is standing still. They’re the tiny victories that say, “Yes, you’re doing this. And yes, you’re going to come out stronger.”

In Mary’s case, staying calm during mediation was a big step in reclaiming her power. For someone else, it might be making that phone call to a coach or an attorney after weeks of procrastination. For you, it could be simply getting out of bed on a day when the weight of it all feels too much. These small moments are not insignificant. They are evidence of your resilience.

What Does Celebrating Small Wins Look Like?

Celebrating your wins doesn’t mean throwing a party every time you handle a tough conversation or check something off your to-do list (but, hey, if that’s your thing, go for it!). It can be as simple as acknowledging your progress.

• Pause and reflect. At the end of each day, take a moment to ask yourself: “What did I accomplish today, no matter how small?” Even if it’s just managing to keep your cool when you didn’t think you could, write it down.
• Treat yourself. Whether it’s indulging in a favorite cup of tea, going for a walk, or taking 20 minutes to read that book you’ve been meaning to get into, allow yourself a small reward when you overcome a hurdle. This is important!
• Share your win with someone who gets it. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or coach (hi!), sharing your win with someone who understands the weight of it can make the victory feel even more real.

The Ripple Effect of Small Wins

When you start celebrating the small wins, something magical happens—you begin to shift your mindset. You stop waiting for the finish line and start appreciating the journey. And when you do that, your confidence grows, your resilience strengthens, and suddenly, the mountain doesn’t look so impossible anymore.

Mary’s small win at mediation led to more wins. She started handling her ex’s emails with a little more detachment, setting better boundaries with her kids’ schedules, and eventually making decisions from a place of calm, not panic. It wasn’t just about “getting through” her divorce—it was about reclaiming her sense of self and power along the way.

So, whether your win today is as small as completing a form, asking for help, or even just getting dressed and out the door, celebrate it. Because it’s not about the size of the win—it’s about the momentum. Every small win you celebrate is one step closer to becoming the person you’re meant to be, a stronger and more grounded version of you.

Keep Going, and Keep Celebrating

Divorce, like life, isn’t a one-time transformation. It’s a process of continuous growth and evolution. So, let’s keep celebrating those small wins—because when you look back, those tiny steps will be the very things that got you to where you’re meant to be.

And trust me, when you get there, you’ll be so grateful you didn’t wait until the finish line to acknowledge your incredible strength.

Now go ahead, ask yourself: What’s your small win today? Whatever it is, take a moment to celebrate it. You’ve earned it.

Love and Light,

Michèle

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It is said, “The teacher will appear when the student is ready.”

Apparently, teachers can come in many forms, and I certainly was not expecting the arrival of this teacher that gray and chilly October morning when I received a phone call from a woman I held in such high esteem.   

It was a particularly stressful time in my life with the pressures of a corporate job, health issues I had never experienced previously, managing a staff, on top of overseeing the care of my dying mother who had only a few months to live.  

To say I thought I could “do it all” is an understatement. 

It never once occurred to me to give myself permission to step out of the race for a bit so I could take care of the only me there is. Nope, I opted for being the Martyr on the verge of a mental and physical breakdown. The exact type of woman I love helping. At the time, I just didn’t see it.  

Upon saying “hello” I was met with a barrage of hurtful criticisms and unwarranted accusations as this woman unleashed what seemed like every transgression she’d experience. The angry energy pulsing through the airwave stunned me into a panicked state of childhood being severely scolded by my mother.  

For nearly 10 minutes, I said nothing, just listened as I felt the heat rise in my body and the lump of shame in my throat barred me from speaking. When she finished her storm of rage, I attempted with as much humble dignity and grace as I could to understand her feelings and apologize for the damage I had apparently caused. 

After the call, I felt so humiliated that I curled up on the floor and ugly cried. This was not a proud moment for me. In fact, this incident brought on so much guilt, embarrassment, and shame that I could not even share my feelings of deep sorrow with those closest to me or even my own trustworthy coach until months later. By that time, I had done quite a lot of my own soul searching and understood the meaning behind it all. 

Little did I understand at the time, it was the moment I subconsciously told myself “This is complete and utter nonsense (or something a little stronger) and I have had enough! I am meant for so much more in this life.” Quite frankly, we all are. Every single one of us deserves so much more than what we allow.  

This was also the moment when the Universe heard me, loud and clear, and began putting things into motion that months later allowed me to leave my corporate career and step into a life truly desired. Additionally, it gave me the beautiful opportunity to care for my mom who was in the last few months of her life. Two gifts I will always cherish.  

This incident also revealed to me that people are hurting. This woman, while directing her anger towards me, was simply temporarily targeting me as the source of her own fear, anxiety, and shortcomings. I now know it really had nothing to do with me, it was only a moment in time that has now passed and I’m quite certain that if it all happened again, we would handle it differently.  

The lesson for us all is to remember that life isn’t happening TO you, it’s happening THROUGH you and FOR you. This can only be seen with an open mind and looking through a different lens while accepting the world as it is.  

Though it was a tough lesson for me at the time, I am and will forever be grateful for how things unfolded. Today, I help others shift their perspectives and grow into who they are meant to be through various life transitions. 

I share this experience with you all in the hopes you will look at your life through a new lens to see there are limitless possibilities in the world for you. Also, to give yourself and others grace before jumping into victimhood or blame over anything. We never know what’s going on in the life of someone else and when we open our hearts and eyes to the fact that it isn’t just about us; we’re humans and all in this together, we create a world of love, peace, and joy. 

If the Universe is telling you, it’s time for a shift, I am here to help. Schedule your complimentary consultations with me today to see what is possible for you.  

Love and Light,

Michèle

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I seem to have a lot of people in my life right now who are going through a rough patch of sorts, in fact, a couple of them are facing unexpected life changes and even life-threatening illnesses. With each of these people, the question that comes up is, “What’s going to happen?”

I don’t know! What is going to happen?

Isn’t it funny how we think we need to know the whole story before we can even begin? Life doesn’t seem to work that way, though. We all start out with nothing more than a bag of threads, a handful of colors, and no pattern to follow. And yet, somehow, we expect it all to come together perfectly, as if the tapestry of our life is something that should reveal itself from the start.

But life isn’t about having the whole picture laid out in front of us. It’s about holding those threads in our hands and beginning to weave, trusting that as we go, a pattern will emerge. Not because we had all the answers, but because we dared to start. The unknown? Well, it’s always there. The real trick is realizing that we get to decide what we want to create.

Each thread we choose to weave represents something—a decision, a hope, a fear, or a dream. And while we may not know how it all fits together, we can have a vision. A vision of the life we desire, of the love we want to feel, of the purpose we long to fulfill. That vision becomes our guide, our compass. And step by step, thread by thread, we begin to craft something beautiful.

Sometimes the threads get tangled. Sometimes they break. But even in those moments, the tapestry continues. It’s in the weaving, not in the knowing, that the beauty unfolds. We don’t need to have all the answers before we begin, and we don’t have to see the entire picture to trust that it’s there, waiting to be revealed.

We just need to keep weaving.

And yes, there will be times when you feel lost, when you wonder if any of these pieces will come together in the way you hoped. That’s where guidance helps—not to tell you what your tapestry should look like, but to help you see the threads more clearly, to remind you of the vision you’re working toward when you feel like throwing the whole thing aside.

Because the truth is, you don’t have to do this alone. There’s support when you need it, encouragement when the threads seem impossible to untangle, and a gentle reminder that it’s your hands holding the loom. No one else can create your life for you. But you can ask for help when you need it. Not to find the answers for you, but to help you remember that the answers were there all along, waiting for you to uncover them.

So, what’s going to happen? I don’t know. But I do know this—you hold the threads. You get to weave. You get to decide what you want to create. And with each step, each choice, and each new thread you add, the tapestry of your life comes into focus, more beautiful and more intricate than you ever imagined.

Trust the process. Keep weaving.

The masterpiece is already in progress.

Love and Light,

Michèle

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There’s nothing quite as unsettling as the fear of financial ruin, especially when it stems from the actions of a difficult or vindictive spouse. For many women, particularly those in their 50s and 60s, this anxiety can feel overwhelming, creating sleepless nights and a paralyzing sense of helplessness. You may wonder, “Will I be able to stand on my own? Can I rebuild my life if my financial foundation is shaken?”

First, know this: you are not alone. Many women have walked this path, and though the terrain is tough, they have emerged stronger and more resilient. Divorce is not just the end of a marriage; it is the beginning of a new chapter in your life—one where you are in control of your destiny, even when the future feels uncertain.

When a spouse’s actions jeopardize your financial security, it’s natural to feel anxious. That anxiety is valid, but it doesn’t have to dictate your future. Yes, the legalities of dividing assets and protecting your financial well-being are essential, but so is your emotional well-being. This is where reclaiming your inner power becomes critical.

Remember, your worth is not tied to your financial situation, your marriage, or even the actions of your spouse. Your worth comes from who you are, and what you’re capable of achieving—regardless of the circumstances. No one can take that away from you.

This is the time to surround yourself with the right support system: attorneys who will advocate for your financial security, and coaches who will empower you emotionally. Together, these resources can guide you through the maze of uncertainty, allowing you to step into a future where you thrive, not just survive.

Your financial security may feel threatened, but your future is still yours to create. Don’t let fear steal your dreams—stand in your power, reclaim your voice, and take control of the life that’s waiting for you.

Love and Light,

Michèle

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