Ladies, if you’re anything like me, you’ve been the queen of multi-tasking, the maestro of managing chaos, and the ultimate champion of cheerleading—mostly for everyone else. I know. I lost myself in a long-term marriage where I felt unheard, betrayed, emotionally abused, and like I was disappearing. At the time, the very idea of self-worth was a foreign concept and the idea of investing in myself was completely absurd!
Why is it that we can justify splurging on the latest gear for our kids’ sports teams, planning family vacations down to the last detail, and even supporting our husbands’ dream of owning a flashy new car, yet when it comes to spending time or money on our own growth, we hesitate?
I struggled with feelings of unworthiness. Somewhere deep down, a little voice whispered, “You’re not worth it.” Whether it was investing in a course or a coach that could change my career, a wellness retreat, or even just a regular facial or massage, that voice piped up, making me question if I really deserved it. Of course, I deserve it and so do you!
The unknown is terrifying. It’s like stepping into a dark room without knowing what’s inside. What if we fail? What if we succeed? What if investing in ourselves disrupts the comfortable (if unfulfilling) routine we’ve settled into? It’s much easier to stay in our safe, familiar bubble, even if it means stifling our potential and our dreams.
Remember that time someone told you that your dreams were unrealistic? Or that focusing on yourself was selfish? Those old, limiting beliefs can cling like glitter—impossible to shake off completely. They shaped my decisions, making me hesitant to step into my power and prioritize my own growth. Sound familiar?
Here’s where investing in a coach made all the difference for me. My coach helped me rediscover my worthiness, break through those old limiting beliefs, and navigate the unknown with confidence. She provided guidance, accountability, and a fresh perspective that illuminated paths I never knew existed. With my coach, I wasn’t just taking steps—I was making strides toward a more fulfilling and abundance filled life.
Investing in yourself isn’t just about the immediate gains. It’s about expanding your horizons and opening up new possibilities. When you invest in personal growth, you’re not just learning new skills or gaining knowledge—you’re expanding your capacity to dream, to achieve, and to live a life that truly reflects who you are. You’re setting a powerful example for those around you, especially your children, showing them that self-investment is not just valuable but essential.
You deserve a life filled with joy, purpose, and fulfillment. You deserve to reclaim your sense of self and to live in alignment with your true passions and desires. Investing in yourself is a way to honor that deservingness. It’s about acknowledging that you are worth the time, effort, and resources needed to grow and thrive.
If it’s time to flip the script in your life and become your own cheerleader, schedule a free consultation with me today. Learn how investing in your own dreams with the same enthusiasm you invest in everyone else’s can change your life. You’re worth it. You’ve always been worth it. Now it’s time to believe it.
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Love and Light,
Michèle