Ending a long marriage after age 50?

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Ending a long marriage after 50?

Read this before you make any calls

Private and Group Divorce Coaching

Divorce Coaching for Women and Men

Steady, experienced support through every stage of ending a long marriage, from the first question to the life you build afterward.

Private and Group Divorce Coaching

Divorce Coaching for Women and Men

Steady, experienced support through every stage of ending a long marriage, from the first question to the life you build afterward.

Private and Group Divorce Coaching

Divorce Coaching for Women and Men

Steady, experienced support through every stage of ending a long marriage, from the first question to the life you build afterward.

Start Your Divorce With a Plan

Divorce today offers several paths, including mediation, collaborative divorce, and litigation. The one you choose shapes what this costs, how long it takes, and how your family comes through it.

As your divorce coach, I help you build a plan before the big decisions are made. You’ll know what matters to you, what your options are, and which professionals you need, so you walk into every meeting with your attorney, mediator, or financial advisor prepared. That preparation saves time and money.

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Two Ways to Work Together

Choose the one that fits how you like to be supported. If you’re unsure, we can sort that out on a call.

Private Divorce Coaching

Unraveling to Rebuilding

One-on-one, for women and men

One-on-one coaching built around your situation and your timeline, from deciding whether to stay or go through mediation, finances, and what comes after

Group Divorce Coaching for Women

The Threshold

Weekly group, Tuesdays at 12:00 PM Pacific

Weekly coaching with me in a small group of women facing the same decisions, with a private community and resources between sessions

Group Divorce Coaching for Men

The Turning Point

Weekly group, Tuesdays at 3:00 PM Pacific

Weekly coaching with me in a small group of men facing the same decisions, with a private community and resources between sessions.

Questions About Divorce Coaching

What does a divorce coach do?

A divorce coach helps you think clearly and make sound decisions before, during, and after divorce. I help you get clear on what you want, understand your options, and prepare for the conversations with your attorney, mediator, or financial advisor.

How is a divorce coach different from an attorney or a therapist?

Your attorney handles the legal side, and your therapist helps you work through what you’re feeling. A divorce coach focuses on your decisions and your direction, so you know what you want and can make the best use of your whole professional team.

When should I start working with a divorce coach?

The earlier the better, and coaching is useful at any stage. Some clients begin while deciding whether to stay or go, others in the middle of the legal process, and others after the divorce is final and they are rebuilding.

Do you offer divorce coaching for men?

Yes. I coach both women and men, privately and in groups. The Turning Point is a weekly coaching group for men, and The Threshold is a weekly coaching group for women.

What is the difference between private and group divorce coaching?

Private coaching is one-on-one and built around your situation and your timeline. Group coaching meets weekly with a small group of people navigating divorce, so you receive coaching along with the support of others who understand.

Every Stage Has a Place Here

Some people come still asking the question, weighing what leaving would cost against what staying already is. Some are in the thick of it, navigating attorneys and financial decisions while still showing up for everyone else. And some are on the other side, legally finished but still finding their footing, figuring out who they are now and what they're building toward.

Wherever you are, there is a place for you here.

Your Next Step

A Clarity and Direction Call is a free, confidential 45-minute conversation. You’ll choose a time and fill out a short form so I know a little about your situation before we talk. Together we’ll work out which kind of support fits you best.

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